snitching? this isn’t oh i stole candy from the jar… get a fucking grip i’m not going to be complicit in ruining someone’s life sorry

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Anonymous #1 1w

No exactly this isn’t a petty situation, and you would be taking agency from both partners when it has fuck all to do with to fulfill your own savior complex.

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Anonymous #2 1w

agency? AGENCY? don’t cheat on your partner and you won’t have to worry bout it 🥀 you’re sick

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Anonymous #1 1w

And you mind your own business and you don’t have to worry bout it 🥀 you’re a dweeb

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Anonymous #2 1w

ain’t no way No.2 is fr tryna justify ts i think what 1 is saying is completely valid💀💀💀 cheating is never right

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Anonymous #4 1w

never said cheating was right but snitches are bottom feeders, mind ya own biz

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Anonymous #2 1w

Snitching rules don’t apply here, so no I won’t be minding my biz

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Anonymous #5 1w

bruv when you’re a snitch nothings off the table so of course that’s your opinion lmao

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Anonymous #2 1w

uh huh…. so if u were actively being cheated on u wouldn’t want someone to tell u?💀💀💀

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Anonymous #2 1w

ratio of likes bud. we might have a cheater here who got outed ‼️

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Anonymous #1 1w

LOL

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Anonymous #4 1w

I would want my partner to tell me if they fucked up not some bum but I don’t date a cheater so it’s not a worry. She just has extra lessons a few nights a week with her yoga therapist but she’s bettering herself

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Anonymous #1 1w

lmao ratio yeah what a ratio

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Anonymous #2 1w

dude… i think on every first date you go on you should tell the woman this convo we had it’ll save her so much time and potential heartbreak… waking read flag

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Anonymous #1 1w

lmao fr 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

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Anonymous #1 1w

Hopefully not going to need to go on anymore first dates tbr haha love my girl What does waking read flag mean? Please just consider talking to the cheater like an adult, confronting them, and letting them come clean in the future if you ever end up with friends in that situation.

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Anonymous #2 1w

why don’t you ask your gf her opinions on this bc i guarantee you might be surprised on her response… also no, because often times when someone cheats they don’t want to be caught or they wouldn’t do it in the first place… ofc i wouldn’t straight up go to the person i would be like hey maybe like tell your partner but if they don’t? then hell ya i’m telling the partner because no human being deserves to be treated like that

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Anonymous #2 1w

i’m sorry but if i know if my friend is being cheated on, they deserve to know. obv the cheater isn’t gonna say they’re cheating, so the person in question is either gonna be kept in the dark for a long time or find out themselves (who knows when that’ll happen). i wouldn’t have a good conscience even keeping that from them. it’s similar to staying quiet when you know someones being bullied. and idc i will never be a bystander when i can help someone out

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Anonymous #1 1w

I don’t want to create any insecurities or worry by bringing it up out of the blue so yeah prob not gonna happen. Sounds like we agree on the latter point

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Anonymous #9 1w

See same with the bully thing i’m taking it right to them not snitching… I am a seeker of confrontation, i like to talk things out with the source and I think that’s maybe a core difference between the two of us 9 which is ok!

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Anonymous #2 1w

when you explain it like that, i see what you mean. and i respect it! but there’s no guarantee that with confronting, they’ll stop. sure, you could say something to the cheater/bully (whatever situation), but who’s to say they’ll actually listen? they could even double down on the secrecy now that they know someone knows, but still continue cheating. what then? i’d rather just tell the person being wronged. and i personally have no sympathy for cheaters, so whatever happens is on them

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Anonymous #2 1w

like i see what you’re saying but what would you do if your confrontation didn’t work? and i mean “work” as in getting them to either stop cheating or fess up the truth. because to me, confronting the source in this case is just hoping they’ll listen to you when they most likely KNOW theyre in the wrong

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Anonymous #2 1w

insane relationship you’re in? i asked my boyfriend right after you replied to my original comment and he said he would also tell the person being cheated on… you rlly are the minority here

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Anonymous #1 1w

respectfully, your boyfriends response has fuck all to do with my gf’s reaction. yeah i’m probably in the minority of people that have actually been in situations with friends cheating on friends so I can actually approach the topic with empathy— things aren’t always so black in white when you care deeply about both sides

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Anonymous #9 1w

My confrontations come with an action plan and for a cheater it’s giving them a chance to set up a time to talk with their partner and come clean before things happened out of their control

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Anonymous #2 1w

sounds like we got a serious case of not secure in their own relationship and just in general being wrong. what a shame, like i said walking red flag

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Anonymous #2 1w

i get your point, but it’s… really optimistic. 1) there’s still no guarantee they’ll spill. what’ll you do if they don’t? and 2) that might work in a setting where the cheater only cheats once and feels remorse, but there are people who continuously take advantage of secrecy and choose to keep offending. THATS who i’m talking about. why give them a chance to “right” a wrong that has no real justification and should never have happened period? ESPECIALLY if it’s happened on multiple occasions?

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Anonymous #1 1w

At least I am in a committed relationship and am pulling my opinions from lived experience rather than the way you think the world should work. You actually said “waking read flag” before because you are a dufus. An opinion you’ve formed due to one disagreement on how to handle a friend cheating which means you have shit judgement which is an actual red flag. Still I hope you make your own friends and maybe even get to be in a relationship one day

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Anonymous #2 1w

i also see your point on being empathetic with friends, but that’s where i think i diverge the most. while i care about my friends, im also really vocal with my opinions on cheaters/liars. it’s a very personal ick of mine so my stance doesn’t change when it comes to friends—i’m the same way if a friend cheats. at the end of the day, we’re all adults and they KNOW what they’re doing. i’m not gonna baby them. and if they know me, they know not to let me catch them LOL

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Anonymous #9 1w

In both cases I would provide the cheater with an ultimatum- A set date and time for them to come clean by and let them know that regardless I’m going to be following up with both them and their partner. For the habitual cheaters I would also probably encourage them to end the relationship rather than make empty promises but i’ve only ever had a friend be cheated on my one never was friends/teammates with one habitually cheating to my knowledge.

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Anonymous #2 1w

are you dumb? i’m in a relationship that is a lot healthier than yours obviously because i can speak to my boyfriend about literally anything without “insecurities” you’re just arguing to argue at this point, if someone is being cheated on that’s not fair to them and they deserve to know so if my friend confides in me and doesn’t tell their partner im telling them simple as that

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Anonymous #1 1w

You have no idea whose relationship is better lmao tf? one of us is certainly dumb. I’m just so very thankful you’re not in my life, you seem like a judgmental bore who snitches in their friends.

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Anonymous #2 1w

i’m not saying mine is better i’m saying yours is unhealthy 💔 you’re the one who is ultimately condoning cheating and painting a picture of it being a “hard situation” when rlly cheaters should never be sympathized with, you rlly are a pathetic excuse for a human being

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Anonymous #1 1w

Right which you have absolutely no grasp on. Confronting cheaters and convincing them to come clean is not condoning cheating, not sure where that jump is coming from. Also why are you misquoting me now you loon If i’m pathetic then that means that you’re less than that, yikes.

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Anonymous #2 1w

alrighty buddy

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