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maturing is realizing that it’s not actually always possible for someone to reach a point of self-love/-acceptance. sometimes, you’ll just always dislike yourself regardless of what you do
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Anonymous 4w

I don’t think that’s mature at all. It sounds defeatist

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Anonymous 4w

If you’re comfortable sharing, what parts of your self will you always dislike?

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Anonymous 4w

It might actually not get better? Damn

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

my height, voice, inability to grow facial/chest hair well, then the way my feet and legs look, then my facial structure, among other things

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

there’s an inherent sense of awareness that predates defeatism

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

You can intellectualize your defeatism or you can choose to keep trying to learn to accept the things you can’t change

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

maybe it’s inherently not possible to accept that for some people

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

you get used to it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

You are wallowing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

You’re right lol but we not gonna let it stop me from doing what I want

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