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why do bisexual women get hate for having a boyfriend lol
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Anonymous 6w

As a bisexual woman with a boyfriend idk!!! Like some people see it as a betrayal for some reason. What did I promise you I only liked women? Get over it Jesus Christ man it’s in the name of

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Anonymous 6w

Usually that alone isnt what sparks frustration tbh, its that ime people act very differently. And yeah it is ridiculous to talk abt “being sooo gay” and shit if you almost always or always date guys. Obv not every bi girl does this but ive experienced it irl enough times to unfortunately understand. Doesnt help that these same girls tend to also lean towards outright homophobia, strangely

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Anonymous 6w

Because they chose a man over WOMEN

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Sorry for the rant I’m just annoyed

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Everyone wants to act like its just blind rage but conveniently ignore what might spark that rage in the first place LOL. Again some people just suck but like. People being obnoxious about anything is gonna ruffle feathers. The worst homophobia ive encountered both online and irl has been from bi girls like what i just described. Its not everyone though, just an unfortunately vocal portion

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

And its worth mentioning that for some reason bi girls like this really love dating horrible conservative guys. Which is another huge reason people get irked

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Yeah if I saw someone queer dating someone conservative I’d be annoyed no matter what. Like don’t you have principles? Cmon. Sorry you’ve had such bad luck with bi women, but as one I do feel obligated to say that it can be both. Someone can be sooooo gay and also date a man- it’s not always 50/50 attraction. I also find that other queer people tend to emphasize how much like a lesbian I am and ignore any references I make to finding men attractive too. Hope you have a good day bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

I just dont get whats hard about just saying youre bi though. It seems intentionally misleading to use the wrong label. Not saying things have to be 50/50, just that using a term thats meant for gay people and not bi people is just confusing. Ill admit im more abrasive about it since having been outright lied to about this multiple times. Being lied to about anything sucks. Again, its not all bi women at all. But the ones that arent like this also tend to be quieter unfortunately.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Bi women do deal with their own set of shitty reactions from others, so i dont meant to discount that. I just dont get the point in using misleading labels and terms and then getting mad when people dont understand you. But if a bi girl is normal abt it and doesnt do the things ive talked about then yeah hate for dating both genders when youre bi is definitely stupid. I wish people were just more respectful of sexualities in general though

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Hope you have a good night too man, may people be less shitty lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

i understand this view if the man sucks like if he’s a trump guy or something lol but if he’s a good dude why does it matter, let people be happy with who they choose to be happy with

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