Anonymous #1 3w

The thing is that I usually do but this time was different. He either forgot or chose not to. That isn’t what bothers me. It is that in the weeks after he has made “jokes” about it. He mentioned before not using any before and I always said no that I wound never do it without lube. I nearly cried and he just found it funny

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Anonymous OP 3w

That is really fucking creepy and childish. Idk man i’d take that as a huge red flag

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Anonymous #1 3w

And during I had practically begged him to finish quicker and he mocked me later on that day. At that point I told him that it had hurt me but even after he has made several “jokes” about it

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Anonymous OP 3w

Why didn’t he stop when it hurt ?? Would it have been so hard to stop and get lube. I don’t understand wtf he was thinking and that borders on sexual assault

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Anonymous #1 3w

He mentioned at one point that he thought he had but didn’t stop because I did say stop. In that same convo he essentially said he did not stop to use lube because he did not think he would be able to get it in again

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Anonymous OP 3w

Oh nah honestly i think you should run. He’s more than willing to put his own pleasure above your basic needs and safety and even has the audacity to joke and laugh about it. Thats fucked up and its valid for this to be a dealbreaker in a relationship

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Anonymous OP 3w

you told him you would never do it without lube yet he did it anyways… RUN! plus he’s mocking you for it??? nah

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Anonymous #4 3w

I did have a convo with him and he did say that he asked of I was ok. I don’t remember it too much during but he could have. I don’t feel resolved. We are long distance and I barely want to talk to him right now let alone visit. I feel worse and guilty even for being upset

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Anonymous OP 3w

you are totally valid to be upset about it

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