I started it because it looked like mindless brain rot to put on while I do other things. I was blown away. Oh I’m not ready to call you my bf but sure I’ll eat whipped cream off your ass or do my favorite sex position with you (I’m like in a 3rd most recent season rn). The few decent people on the show get voted out for slutty / outright awful people.
i think huda is flawed, just like every person on this show. i think she has room to grow and she definitely has been improving, however i don’t believe she’s a shitty person at heart. i don’t think she does things with malicious intent. she’s definitely not perfect, as no one is, however i don’t think she’s a bad person.
just bc someone has a lot of friends doesn’t mean they have a lot of good friends. it’s really about quality over quantity. honestly, a lot of the girls in the villa love to preach about sisterhood and being a ‘girl’s girl,’ but most of them haven’t actually shown that. and truthfully, none of us know huda personally, so i’m not going to speak on her friendships outside the villa.
Until you've met a person like that, you have no idea. I've met plenty. It's always "I have no friends and idk why" so I feel bad and become their friend. That is until they pull some crazy shit that involves insulting me, publicly embarrassing me, or threatening me. Huda has already shown those. It's sooo incredibly obvious. Everyone wants to believe that people are just good but news flash they aren't! And goddamn NOBODY changes in 2 days.
i’ve had friendships like that too, so i get it. but i don’t think it’s fair to project personal experiences onto huda or judge her whole character based on a few messy moments in an intense, high-pressure environment that none of us have experienced firsthand. she’s been in the villa for weeks, not two days—she’s had time to reflect and grow, and i think we’ve seen some of that. she’s not perfect, but i don’t think she’s cruel or irredeemable either.
She's done things that aren't normal in general and would be weird to experience in any of my friends.. you say she had time to reflect and grow but... she was complaining to Chris and crying about only getting one pancake in the same episode people said she was supposedly growing... She was almost kicked off twice and she's on camera, you seriously believe she's changed after being that way her entire life?
i’m not saying she’s a totally different person overnight. i’m just saying we’ve seen glimpses of self-awareness and effort. the pancake situation was more about her insecurity and not knowing where she stood with chris than anything else. growth isn’t linear, and it doesn’t mean someone stops being emotional or reactive right away. none of us know her entire life, so assuming she’s incapable of change because of a few mistakes is unfair.