its crazy; i mostly took care of the feeding for all of them when i lived at home of course, since i preferred to feed my own cat and I helped out by feeding hers as well, but like. she knows the appropriate amount to feed them, I’ve watched her give them reasonable portions before. idk if she was like, stress feeding my cat in particular as a way of coping after i moved out? but like, she still has two other children living at home, stress feed them instead, not my cat 😭 💔