
As a hot guy it is literally this. All it takes is going to gym and dieting, a haircut that suits you, skincare and hygiene, good posture, dressing well with a sense of style, good quality pics and a smart variety of them, and a genuine bio that comes off as kind or funny. Got mad hookups when I wanted, and now I have a gf over almost 3 years.
Im a tall good looking guy. But I'm poor, so when I was on tinder I would get a rare match. Lots of women approach me in real life, but it was apparent on my old tinder profile Im not wealthy so they're immediately uninterested. If you didn't appear wealthy, they wouldn't be acting this way on tinder. They want your wallet. I'm happily engaged so I haven't had to deal with tinder in a long time. But I know you ain't getting that treatment because of your height and looks, that's a dime a dozen.
I mean that's just basic stuff. Maybe not gym and dieting but you def shouldn't get obese. Everyone should dress well and take care of hygiene. Skincare is pretty normalized today also. If you have common sense then you will take good pictures too and use a good variety. Posture is something everyone can fix with habit and practice as long as there isn't a health issue. Honestly this is all the bare minimum.