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from experience i think that when ppl are very nasty toward fat ppl and say “it’s bc im concerned ab their health” 9 times outta 10 is so fake. it’s about appearance. no one gives me shit ab having a obese bmi bc my proportions are socially acceptable.-
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Anonymous 5w

Yup! Exactly!! I know I’m fat. I’m working on addressing my mental health so I can be healthier. My bloodwork is fantastic and I can move and breathe. I don’t need the reminder, I’m very aware. It’s always been about my appearance. The right angles, no comments. Any hint of weight, immediate “you’re fat. Lose weight. It’s for your health.”

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Anonymous 5w

and did you see how hella people basically mourned when the obviously overweight ice spice lost weight 😭😭 it’s almost always mainly about appearance and not genuine concerns i believe, i think women in my shoes can see right through it as well. i’ve had mfs that shamed obese ppl be into me… babe im obese too per bmi and it ain’t bc im mostly muscle.

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Anonymous 5w

Being fat has more health effects than just blood work. You’re more likely to develop certain cancers and things like bone disease. Being fat is not good in any way, regardless of what your blood work says.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

like it’s clicking to me bc my bf doesn’t think i’m fat. i’m quite literally am.. but why am i not fat when someone with the same stats but different appearance would be?? like it’s clicking omg

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

the right angles kinda hits. bc if i didn’t suck in my stomach 24/7 i would def get judged like literally the few times ive gotten nasty comments from family members is when i was relaxed or relaxed plus sitting bc then you see my shit fr lmfao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I’m fat but I’m a kinder person and I still look cute. I can lose weight, but at least I’m a step ahead in not being a prick. 💃🏼

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Look at you, proving this post right! Chew on glass. 🫶🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

i completely understand…idk ab the other person but for me personally though, it’s a choice. at a healthy weight i felt the most physically and mentally miserable. i actually am thinking about losing some weight but my goal is still an overweight mark, i don’t have plans of becoming a ‘healthy’ weight at all in my life and understand potential risks.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I work in a lab, I do cell research, I know exactly how dangerous being overweight is, and you tell me to chew on glass? Look in the mirror at your hateful ass, you’re a miserable person

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Understandable. Just keep an eye out on the things that may come with it in the years to come. Stay on top of it and you should be okay!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

yeah for sure. i know that for the most part i feel very well because im young so i need to lock in with building muscle for the future to help atleast

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