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General 10w
I’m a good looking guy, I have a good personality, and I’m a good partner- the only issue is, I don’t make the first move. Almost ever- because I never want to make someone uncomfortable if they’re not interested.
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Anonymous 10w

Figure it out brah you can make moves in respectful ways

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Anonymous 10w

yall are too scared to fail. how tf else are you supposed to learn how to succeed.

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Anonymous 10w

Good intention, but if you’re interested in someone don’t you think they deserve to know? Think of it that way. Sure some people may not reciprocate, but as long as you are respectful and take no for an answer it shouldnt be a truly uncomfortable situation.

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Anonymous 10w

I can assure you that is NOT why you don’t make the first move. It is 100% only because you fear rejection, simple as that!

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Anonymous 10w

Get into gentle femdom, and then look for dom girls, and don’t be weird about it. Suddenly you’re like the most desirable 1% of the entire niche.

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Anonymous 10w

Ong bro it’s the same for me. Scared it might backfire.

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Anonymous 10w

Damn a lot of people invalidating me in the replies. This is just who I am 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous 10w

Don’t ever make the first move

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 10w

And then they make the first move 😏

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

What’s wrong with women trying? Everyone’s so adamant about breaking the status quo- why does it always need to be the man that makes the first move? Seems antithetical to a progressive world.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

You’re not wrong, but I think your energy is better spent trying to get what you want rather than shaking your fist at what makes it hard. Yes it would be really cool if women made the first move more often - but if what you want is a relationship I think you have a better chance at that if you just get over your nerves/doubts instead of wishing everyone else would change. You know what you want from the world, but what does the world want from you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

what’s wrong with you trying either? women do make the first move a lot of the time now but a lot of women are more traditional too and want him to make the first move. if you wait for someone else to do it you can’t get mad when it doesn’t happen smh stand up bro this is not a gender issue

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

You can change that tho??? If who you are isn’t getting any bitches and you wanna be someone who gets bitches, what do you think the problem is??????

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

The fact you’re calling them “bitches” means you will never hold a lasting relationship.

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