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That feeling when your family keeps deadnaming and misgendering you despite already coming out to them. Like I fucking give up already
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Anonymous 5d

You deserve better. I hope you can get away from them soon!

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Anonymous 5d

From experience, it takes some time for adjustment, and some family members are better than others. Stay strong and try your best to correct them if you can :) definitely a difficult process

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Anonymous 5d

just don't respond to them

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Anonymous 4d

Deny yourself and give your life to Christ. Best decision I have ever made.

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Anonymous replying to -> og_littlepenis 5d

you:

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

Tough talk coming from people that believe in changing genders

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5d

You not understanding science passed the 7th grade isn’t the worlds problem, sometimes reality is offensive deal with it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

You mean the science that genders aren’t actually different from sex and you can’t just change them at will?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5d

Without looking it up, tell me the definitions of gender and sex.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

Just because you think you’ve magically changed the definition of one word to fit your narrative doesn’t mean you can magically switch back and forth. You’re born one or the other. It’s really that simple.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5d

intersex people:

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

Intersex are born that way. They don’t watch a TikTok and decide to “change”. Also stop using the outlier as your main point. You know what percentage of the population is actually intersex?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5d

Didn’t do it. Try again.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

You worship a God that told people to own child slaves lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4d

Nothing to say?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

outright false but okay

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

If God said that you should own people as property without those people’s consent, would that be good or bad?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

regulation isn’t the same thing as moral approval, God was working in an already broken world cuz humans are evil by nature

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

Weird you couldn’t answer. Good or bad?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

What is there to say? I’m correct just because I want to be, just like you are whatever sex you think just because you want to be.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4d

Science doesn’t care about your feelings. Definitions. Go ahead.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

You’re so right. It doesn’t care about your feelings. You’re just so damn close to understanding how ridiculous it is to think you can change your sex back and forth on a whim.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4d

All this crying and you can’t define 2 words lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

The deadnaming with continue until logic improves.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

that was my answer. but obviously it would be a bad thing in a word, since you’re trying to contain an incredibly complex historical issue into a good or bad question.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

So when God told people in Exodus 21:4 to own children as property (to the slave owner) from birth. The children don’t get to consent to that. You agree that’s bad. Thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

yes but it’s not that simple. i understand your view, and based on what you’ve likely been told about it, of course you’d hate Christianity. but it’s lacking a lot of context. you’re missing the bigger picture

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

You agreed that it’s bad. Great that’s all J needed to hear was that you agree it’s bad for God to give that command. God did something, to you, that is immoral What have I been told about it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

let me put it like this: If you tried to impose a totally radical law on a bunch of ruffians who barely listened to what you had to say, you’d likely ease them into the type of behavior you wish for. for example, putting regulations on a population that won’t stop taking slaves (bad) that mandate they do it somewhat ethically, because if you just outright tried to ban slavery, they wouldn’t listen to begin with. Again I reiterate, God was working in a broken world

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

I’m aware of the historical context thanks.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

dm if you’d like to talk about it more, i’d love to! If not, all good. Happy Easter, God created you beautifully and wonderfully. He loves you so much

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

I’d like for you to answer since you assumed, which is a behavior mocked in the bible.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

will you answer why you assumed that about me?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

regulating is not the same as condoning. The ultimate Christian story presses towards human dignity. i can’t know exactly what you’ve been told, but you’ve obviously received some bad information. I’m glad to hear you’re aware of the historical context, it just didn’t seem like it thanks to your “good or bad” method of arguing, which, let’s be real, is arguing in bad faith

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

If I limit someone to shooting someone one time instead of 10, that’s still immoral. You can agree to that. If you any know what I’ve been told; then why assume it’s not because of my own study? What evidence did you use to suggest it was being fed to me instead of me just learning this on my own? That’d disingenuous for you to paint me and my experience that way. Is it EVER okay to you, for someone of authority to tell others to own people as property, without those people’s consent?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

that’s a good argument! regulating evil is not the same as endorsing good, you’re right. you started by stating God told people to own children. That’s a far stretch from the point you’re trying to prove now, I hope you can concede that. my point wasn’t that slavery is moral, but that the text is imposing regulations on an already fallen order. (1/2)

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

Second, saying this understanding may have been influenced by teachers or tradition was not an attack on your intelligence or sincerity. Everyone’s reading is shaped by prior frameworks, including yours and mine. That is not “disingenuous”; it is just how interpretation works. (2/2)

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

He did say that, objectively he did.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

but the distinction between condoning it and regulating it is what i’m trying to get at. and that distinction is very important.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

Can’t regulate without being okay with it happening.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

Not necessarily. Regulating something can mean you are permitting it in a limited civil sense, not that you regard it as morally good. We do this all the time when govts regulate divorce, prostitution in some places, war, alcohol, and prisons. That does not mean they think all of those things are morally ideal. It means they are dealing with realities they believe exist and are trying to restrain damage.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

Just say you wish you had slaves, dude.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

hahahah so i take it you concede? Have a blessed day.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

I’m not a piece of shit and won’t try to justify disgusting and abhorrent practises or try to pretend something that clearly has no issues with them actually opposed it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

If I tell you, that my friend is allowed to shoot someone over stab them multiple times, neither option is moral, you agree right?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

Look, I clearly can’t convince you guys. I’ll respectfully thank you both for the opportunity to exercise some debate skills, and wish you a wonderful rest of Holy Week. You’re both great people IRL I’m sure. Hope you guys find Christ one day, and all the amazing benefits that come with that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

I don’t care about your mythology.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

Lord, I pray you would soften this persons hardened heart with the affection and love only you can give. I pray they’d find you when it is hard, and continue walking with you when it is good.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

It makes me sad to know that 1 question was enough for you to stop engaging entirely Especially after you so rudely chose to assume things about my life and never even apologize

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

Blah blah blah. Krishna guide you back to Ra and Freyja. 🙄

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4d

Not a definition. Try again. Weird this offends you this much

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