That’s not what I’m saying, I’m not saying doing that is wrong. Thats a personal thing of mine and it really isnt major, I just find it a little offputting when people do that-no fault to anyone who does, and its not like I hate her for that. Just puts me off a little. So for eva that had just put me off a little, but it wasnt end all be all. The coconut thing, thats what did it in for me