Anonymous #1 1w

what do you mean?

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Anonymous OP 1w

Why bring gaylors up?

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Anonymous OP 1w

Like why not just celebrate that Taylor and travis are happy

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Anonymous OP 1w

Are you just trying to spread homophobia?

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Anonymous #1 1w

wtf are you on about? i'm literally a lesbian myself😭😭 i've just been seeing a few videos from "gaylors" for the past few days and it's crazy to me how so many people are speculating about someone's sexuality when it's literally non of their business, like for example i don't give a shit who she's with cause as long as her partner is not a threat to anyone it's like i said non of our business...

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Anonymous #1 1w

and just for clarification i'm not talking about Swifties who are apart of the LGBTQ+ community i'm talking about the people who can't stop obsessing over her relationships...

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Anonymous OP 1w

I haven’t seen any gaylor posts recently so I was like why would someone bring them up and a lot of times people bring up gaylors it is to be homophobic. I don’t agree with gaylors but I do often see homophobia directed towards them and it has made me as a lesbian question people’s intentions for bringing them up. Also I have been called a gaylor for being a lesbian so I just question people’s intentions

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Anonymous #1 1w

yeah no those weren't my intentions at all, like i said i'm a lesbian myself and its just weird to me how often many people comment on taylor's relationships and not just gaylors but also people who are still hung up on joe... also i've experienced homophobia in this community and ik it's really exhausting and disgusting as well as people calling swifties who are gay, gaylors and it's just really wrong cause that's not what that means...

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Anonymous #1 1w

also i think it's okay and important to criticize the people taylor is in a relationship with if they did something wrong but blaming taylor for it or saying something like "i miss when she was with _" it's just weird...

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Anonymous OP 1w

I 100% agree, most people I have talked to seem to think that gaylors are on a different level than the Joe widows or the Maylors. I have been called a gaylor for saying that I relate songs to my own life (like saying I know places makes me think of my own relationship with being in the closet) and that I shouldn’t be allowed at concerts bc apparently thinking about my own life while listening to Taylor is projecting my sexuality on her

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Anonymous OP 1w

I feel like gaylor has become a word in this fandom that is thrown around a lot in order to shame people for being gay or viewing something in a queer lens

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Anonymous #1 1w

yeah exactly like gaylors are just as weird as all the other swifties speculating about taylor's relationships. but fr the homophobia in this fandom is really disgusting especially towards lesbians cause why do they think it's a crime that i don't think about a man when i'm listening to, for example lover like that doesn't mean i'm questioning taylor's sexuality and also i think most of them forgot that taylor wrote"you need to calm down"cause she would not support that kinda homophobic behavior

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