Iirc during the lover secret sessions people started stealing from her and that’s why she stopped. Like imagine welcoming fans into your own house, and giving them snacks and an option to hear your work earlier before everyone else and they go ahead and steal your belongings?? No wonder she’s so private now
And i think during another one people were shouting her exs names out like???? I was a fan during the secret sessions eras and the way if I got chosen would’ve been overly respectful like “omg I got crumbs on your floor hang on I’ll vacuum your whole house I’m so sorry!!!” (An obvious exaggeration but you get the point)