Anonymous #4 4w

assuming someone is gay is the exact same thing as assuming someone is straight. not that deep

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Anonymous OP 4w

That’s actually not what we’re saying at all, I even have first hand experience how rumors like this can hurt someone. I’m not saying being gay is a bad thing but people are assholes. And saying things like her talking about her father’s HEART SURGERY was her way of saying she’s gay and had a change of heart on how he felt about her being okay is wrong on so many levels.

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Anonymous OP 4w

I can promise you i’m not Homophobic. My two best friends are gay. But i definitely could’ve worded one if my sentences better. If they believe deeply in their soul that she’s gay, great. But what’s not great is saying she’s in a secret relationship with her friends, because she’s says she’s extremely uncomfortable with that. Do i think there intending to insult her, idk. But i do know that the way that they go about things is like i said disrespectful, invasive and inappropriate.

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Anonymous OP 4w

Okay so (don’t say it’s different because it’s not roles are just reversed) It’s not disrespectful for someone to go and make theories that Chappell is straight and not gay?

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Anonymous #1 4w

Never once did i say it’s not ok to be gay, or be apart of the LGBQ+ community. And let’s say taylor is gay, that’s none of our business. Because if she dosent wanna tell us, she doesn’t have to. But making up weird theory’s about her personal life, to say that she’s trying to hint to us that she’s coming out of the closet isn’t ok

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Anonymous OP 4w

swifties love being homophobic lmao

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Anonymous #6 4w

Swifties do this. I have been told the giver was written from the male perspective

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Anonymous #2 4w

I have seen Travis Stans say the open heart surgery was an Easter egg for a wedding so it’s not just gaylors and it is a little homophobic to pretend it is just Gaylors

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Anonymous OP 4w

Your take on this is all wrong. I want to have a civil conversation if you’re willing to listen. But let’s get one thing straight here… it is 100% okay to be gay, bi, straight, anything you want to label or not label yourself as. What isn’t okay, is to label someone else. You are not entitled to someone else’s sexuality and it is harmful to assume another persons sexuality.

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Anonymous OP 4w

If you are craving representation then look to actual artists that have come out and spoken about their sexuality. You cannot and should not force your ideas onto someone. It’s not okay. We do not know her, we just know what she chooses to share with us and right now, she is saying Travis is her boyfriend. That’s all we are entitled to. Choosing to not believe that is 1) entitled and mean and 2) incredibly parasocial

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Anonymous OP 4w

I’d also like to point out that you’re taking people’s words and changing them. I didn’t say it’s disrespectful to assume someone’s gay, I said it’s disrespectful to call her a liar, to say she’s lying about her fathers surgery, to make theories about her sexuality, etc. you can want Taylor swift to be gay all you want, but the minute you start forcing that rhetoric onto others and saying it’s true? That’s where they cross the line.

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Anonymous OP 4w

I’m pansexual, been with both men and women, im currently with a man… if someone were to say im gay and that’s that, its minimizing my current relationship and my own label, that is for me to decide and wear only. She has not publicly said anything about her sexuality - she told us who her boyfriend is rn, so out of respect to her, we need to believe it. Choosing to ignore that is 100% disrespectful

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Anonymous #6 4w

This is a great point. If we started looking for theories that Chappell is lying and is actually straight, we’d be burned at the stake for real

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