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Today I f’ed up 5w

aqua_nazar_amulet92

 After a year long situationship, I asked why he was so distant. He said “I haven’t liked you in two months but I stay because you treat me really well” we stopped talking ofc. How do I heal from this
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Anonymous 5w

loosing interest is unfortunately a risk with relationships, especially if they were immature going into a relationship. i don't know if this is a situation where you wanted to date and they didn't, but don't do this to yourself again. it took me over a year to heal from my 6 month situationship. it's not just the memories you have, it's all the things you wanted to do with them. let yourself grieve what happened and didn't happen

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Anonymous 4w

“Year long situationship” 🥀

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Anonymous 4w

Stop having “sitatuonships” and focus on yourself. Wait for the right person and don’t let your libido and carnal desires control your life. Get some real hobbies and exercise, read more, and spend time in nature.

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Anonymous replying to -> dinosaurusrex 5w

Thank you for this. I’m currently in a situationship with a man out of a 5 year relationship. The last one did a big number to him and it’s hard trying to revive that light back into him, but I’m realizing there’s only so much I can give before I start losing parts of myself

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I had the impression we were going to make it official “soon” there were personal reasons we couldn’t date at first (I don’t put all the blame on him for this) but they eventually cleared up and I kept thinking (and sometimes asking) now what? And there was always an excuse. I known better I should of left forever ago, he was just so good at making the situation sound better than what it truly was

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Anonymous replying to -> aqua_nazar_amulet92 5w

They are good at that. They don’t want you they want the idea of what it could’ve been or to fill a temporary loneliness or stay out of habit.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

just remember partner not project. you shouldn’t be fixing them

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Lesson was learned, definitely didn’t plan to do that again

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