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today I realized that even though I love my bf, starting long distance might break us. and since I am afraid of rejection I feel as if I am looking for reasons to end this and why this won’t last.
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Anonymous 7w

Give it a chance

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Anonymous 7w

have an open and honest conversation about this with him, don't make this decision on your own. once I start grad school me and my boyfriend are also going to have to be long distance. my first thought was also that we may need to break up, but we've talked about it a lot and we're both so committed to each other. and now I feel so much more at ease about having distance between us

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Anonymous 7w

I highly recommend NOT doing long distance. Distance doesn’t make the heart grow fonder. Without scheduled visits, an end date, and mutual commitment it’s statistically not in your favor to work out.

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Anonymous 7w

Fuck it, go with him. Thats what I did after 3 months of dating and now I’m pregnant w his baby😛 (we’ve been together 2 years atp)

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Anonymous 7w

I don’t know how long the distance is but I will say this is a totally valid decision, especially if it’s going to be a long time and if y’all don’t enjoy the idea. My girlfriend and I are just wrapping up a three month stint of long distance and even that was almost too much, it’s really hard and she especially HATES long distance

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Anonymous 7w

If you just started long distance and already are talking like that I would just end it like wtf

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