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Today I f’ed up 6w
I went on a date with a guy who i’m not super interested in but i wanted to give him a shot and he showed up with flowers AND a vase. I feel horrible
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Anonymous 6w

there’s no reason for you to feel bad. you are in no way obligated to be interested in anybody. just because someone is interested in you doesn’t mean you need to reciprocate. just be polite and honest about it. he can’t ask you for anything else.

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Anonymous 6w

Don’t feel bad

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Anonymous 6w

These comments are telling you not to feel bad but you should feel bad for agreeing to a date when you know you’re not interested. Don’t feel bad for not reciprocating the feelings. But you did lead them on a bit when you already knew it wouldn’t go anywhere

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Anonymous 6w

Why go out on a date?

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Anonymous 6w

From what I hear, it’s best to give people 2-3 dates to see if ur compatible, so many of my parents friends hated eachother before it turned to love

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

it’s a family member of one of my good friends and she asked that i at least give him a shot

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6w

You’re getting downvoted for speaking the truth, this was kinda shitty

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

if it wasn’t my best friends family member i wouldn’t have gone, but she asked that i at least go out with him once to give him a chance

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I mean it wasn’t really a chance tho, like if you already made up your mind

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

You’re both shitty people then

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

The truth hurts people’s feelings 🤷‍♀️

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