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I met a genuinely nice man who’s hot, but it turns out he was just gay the whole time 💔
377 upvotes, 38 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Today I f’ed up. "I met a genuinely nice man who’s hot, but it turns out he was just gay the whole time 💔"
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Anonymous 3w

Can’t pick your battles

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Anonymous 3w

This exact thing happened to me. I met this really cute handsome guy at a rave and was throwing it back on him and then he started throwing it back on me!! And he was throwing it back better then I even did 😭😭

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Anonymous 3w

Give us average dudes a chance 🙏(who is genuine, not the creepy ones)

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Anonymous 3w

how can you not tell tho? gen question (even if they don’t look, dress, act, talk gay, like can’t you feel the vibe that they ain’t straight?)

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Anonymous 3w

Canon event

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Anonymous 3w

Baby I know gay guys who never turn down pussy. Especially if he still has a masculine appearance. I’ll still ask him.

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Anonymous 3w

Painful mood

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Anonymous 3w

They always are

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Shit… nowadays you can catch them with a dick in their mouth but if they have socks on then it ain’t gay cuz of the socks on rule. In that case, he ain’t gay, just helping a homie out with a bro job.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w
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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Wild turn of events

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

Because at least you get the dick right?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

because gay people are humans and not stereotypes. you can’t always tell

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3w

what the actual fuck that’s not what i was saying? did you even read my comment? i said even if they don’t look act gay as in stereotypes and “feel the vibe” as in their energy like having a gaydar you just know and a lot of ppl can always tell read comments twice before assuming

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Sometimes you can’t tell. He could still be bisexual and still like girls. Gay people don’t always have to be “flamboyant”. I seen some gay guys that can probably bench more than you and me combined. Just cause he likes dick doesn’t make him less of man. 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

still not what i’m saying, a FEELING a GAYDAR a queer person does not need to be “flamboyant” or scream gay to be queer but people can still tell idk where the hell you getting all that stuff from, stop assuming if you don’t understand what i’m talking bout

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

I find that crazy when it’s still women that can’t tell when they date DL men all the time. We’re not going to undermine that fact. But ok. I didn’t think this was big deal just a conversation. ✌🏾

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

I never assumed anything I clearly said in my first line. “Sometimes you can’t tell”.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

you replied to my comment saying “gay people are humans and not stereotypes” implying that I was saying that and that was not even what i was talking about so i corrected you, because that is an awful thing to assume (still don’t know how tf you got that out of my comment) i was obviously not going to let that be and have people read your comment and assume i was saying that when i clearly was not

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

You must got me confused with someone else. None of my comments said “gay people are humans not stereotypes” that was #9. Are you ok? 🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

i’m sorry i replied to #9 and thought they were replying back but its still not wrong for me to defend myself

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

No not at all! But I’m going to defend myself as well because I was simply was stating my opinion while not downplaying yours. I hope you understand.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

yeah i see that now, im sorry again i gen thought you were #9

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

All love here!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

yeah and saying “you can feel the vibe” is still kinda odd to me. I’m gay and I can’t always tell who’s gay and who isn’t.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

doesn’t that make them… not gay ? 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

No gay friends have told me drunk nights happen! 🤣🤣🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

You do realize that not all gay men have come out at a young age. They still dated girls to cover it up. Before coming out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

There is no fucking vibe I’ve been in the closet most of my life and no one (friends or family) felt any vibe or even had the slightest inclination or I would’ve been kicked out of the house like so many other queer youths facing persecution

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

But after coming out do they still “never turn down pussy” as you said? If so it’s likely they’re not 100% gay/for men. They’re likely bi/pan then not just gay

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

No because they don’t have to use women as a cover anymore. But if the opportunity was presented to them they’ll link with a girl. But most of the time they’re strictly dickly.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 3w

You’re absolutely correct! Before I came out as bisexual (because it was eating me alive) I dated girls and had sex with only girls. No one knew even though I sucked at being DL no one ever called me out on it they just thought it was weird. But they eventually moved on and never brought it up.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

Then they’re not 100% gay. 100% gay means men ONLY all the time

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

I feel like the guys who bench the most are always gay. Total win for me lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 3w

Win for us!!🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3w

i’m sorry you don’t understand, i’m a lesbian and i can feel a vibe/energy from other queer ppl that they’re queer and all my friends know what i mean i find it hard to see that others can’t always tell and that’s my bad, i just don’t understand and again idk how tf you got that from my comment, i would not say that about my community, i dont even fit the stereotypes why would i say anything of the sort when it would degrade others and myself

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 3w

i’m sorry you don’t understand what i mean by vibe i mean like having gaydar its a feeling a vibe you just know and so like you and the ppl around you don’t have a gaydar and that’s alright

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

i had a gaydar before i even knew what queer meant, some ppl have good gaydars and some don’t

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