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FTM guy here I feel like nobody sees me as a guy ever. Like full stop, I wish anyone did. I’m pre-t in my 20s so I have curves and I can’t bind. (For safety reasons at work) I got a high voice. I try and dress masc and act cool but it just never works
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Anonymous 1d

I’m not able to afford any treatment and after graduating w/ so much debt I won’t have any upwards mobility. I live at home and my family tolerates me being trans (using my name - the shortened version only, no correct pronouns) but never help and they don’t care. I wish there was anything to hope for

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Anonymous 1d

🤝 I was out as transmasc for years and years before I was able to start T, and it was fucking soul-crushing trying to move through a world where nobody actually saw me as who I was no matter how open I was with people in my personal life wish I had anything actually-helpful to say. at the very least I hope you can find a few friends who clearly understand you as the man you are without needing to be reminded all the time

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Anonymous 17h

I’ve had the same issues, it’s definitely hard. If you have TikTok there are way people have found to pass without T- so far, and they can be a big help.

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Anonymous 1d

People see you as a person you’re the only one obsessed over it. Plus people should treat everyone equally so it shouldn’t matter

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I can at least promise that that much is def possible. there’s tons of trans people out there—medically transitioning or not—who won’t just reduce you to the traits that cause you dysphoria, and who will see You when they look at you

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