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Trans Talk 8w
hey what does it mean when i prefer he/they pronouns but prefer appearing feminine but in a femboy way? like the pronouns r more comfortable and the idea of being a boy but dressed femininely is what makes me happy. wthdoes that mean. im so confused lmao.
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Anonymous 8w

gender nonconforming probs

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Anonymous 8w

Gender expression =\= Gender!

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Anonymous 8w

I’m discovering that I’m the same way. I am a cis man but I got gender nullification surgery because my dick made me feel dysphoric and then I started T and it made me feel even better and I ended up experimenting with makeup and it made me feel beautifully handsome and then I started wearing biker shorts and crop tops to the gym but I’m a big tall muscular guy and I enjoy how my body looks and I bought a dress and really like how it looks and feels cause it’s a bodycon dress

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Anonymous 8w

Gender do be a spectrum 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous 8w

gender is literally just vibes, your gender is your own, have fun with it

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Anonymous 8w

does it have to mean something? i’m really not trying to be funny/rude, but like, i think sometimes as trans ppl we tend to overanalyze every single choice/preference/feeling we have. it doesn’t have to “mean” anything besides you like he/they pronouns and prefer to dress femininely.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

thank you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

truth! thank u!

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Anonymous replying to -> yeochopsticks 8w

period

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

hell yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

i def didnt think u were being rude! ur def right. i think it modtly feels like i have to have an answer to give people when they ask “what am i” but ppl who arent willing to understand arent ppl i wanna be around anyway. ty for this it was rlly helpful! im just gonna be me <3

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

💞

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8w

slay!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

I comment that to basically say what everyone else has said, gender doesn’t really exist, it’s whatever you want to make of it

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