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ugh I’m so tired of dressing like a midwestern dad but going somewhere to pick fem clothes is expensive and scary. Also idk what to do with my curly hair now that I’ve grown it out, bangs are an option but it’d take a while to undo if I don’t like it lol
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Anonymous 4d

Go out and buy them. The temporary anxiety is worth the thrill of feeling beautiful and the prolonged gender euphoric expression you’ll be able to access everyday through your wardrobe. Go in person, try some stuff, buy a few things you’ll like. You will appreciate yourself in the long run

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Anonymous 4d

smth i did with my curly hair (because im scared of bangs too lol) is get a layered cut with a face-framing fringe in the front. it gives you the feel of grown-out bangs and you can get used to that without making the leap

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

its also worth mentioning that i am ftm but still closeted and this is the most fem my hair has ever looked, even compared to when it was just long as balls (literally, it went past my ass)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Ty!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

Ty!

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