i found it helpful with my ex to ask about terms he liked to use for his body/during sex (using a neutral word like "spot" or dick, for example), and being considerate of bathroom situations is appreciated too. other than that, there's not really much to think about. our family situations tend to be bad, though it's great if his isn't, so listen and take in what you hear before responding when they come up.

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Just treat him like you would any other man! Maybe ask him if he has any dysphoria triggers or anything like that If you want more insight into the trans experience maybe read the Gender Dysphoria Bible. It’s meant to help trans people find out if they’re trans, but also it just works as a great way to educate cis people

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Little extra context; Im a queer, cis woman so Im not completely in the dark, but I want to do all I can to alleviate atleast some of his anxiety and be better informed so I can support him properly 🙂‍↕️

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