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i think i’m mtf but im not sure. trans girls how did you realize you were trans? i’ve been questioning for a while
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Anonymous 4d

Quite frankly I literally just got smacked in the face with it for no apparent reason. It was super sudden for me. It think the thing that fully got me to *accept it* though (longer process) was the fact that I just knew I hated the way I was perceived then. And that I didn’t like how my body looked. I wanted to look, sound, and be treated as a girl and it just made things fairly obvious. But that may not be as helpful for you since you’re more unsure.

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Anonymous 4d

I just got to a point where I realized that I was literally dissociating any time someone viewed me as masculine or deadnamed me and I couldn’t fucking stand it anymore

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Anonymous 4d

me with ftm

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Anonymous 4d

idk who to talk to

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

Part of the way I got to accepting it was listening to other trans girls (mostly online tbh) talk about their experiences at the beginning of their transition and how they felt and how they knew. And it resonated with me. A lot of it felt familiar. And eventually I just could tell that I internally felt like a girl. Honestly I’d say just go for it and if you change your mind then you can stop. You don’t even have to get on hrt yet if you don’t wanna. Maybe tell a friend or a couple friends about

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

And ask them to use she/her pronouns and maybe a new feminine name when y’all are in private. That’s how I started the process of coming out and deciding on my name and it felt veeerrrryy good for me.

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