hormonal changes can impact everyone differently, but tbh, “t makes people aggressive and angry” is just a form of bioessentialist justification for misogyny. for me, being on t has given me a level of emotional control and maturity i didn’t have prior (PMDD + dysphoria is a fucked up combo). not saying it can’t make him more volatile necessarily, but *meanness* is a choice, and if he’s aware of these changes in himself he needs to work to develop coping skills—not lash out.

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I’m going to see him today and talk to him about everything and tell him how I feel and essentially tell him I need something to change or we are going to need to do something about it

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