Proposal: replace mtf and ftm with ffm (female from male and male from female) which still allows us to have conversations about our bodies without putting our asab in front of our gender (source: @tiffandevecomics on instagram)
it’d be better but I’d still just say trans guy/girl since I don’t want to mention asab at all lol
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Anonymous12w
hehe penib
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Anonymous12w
this makes me sound like a gooner but ffm/mff makes me think of threesomes…
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Anonymous12w
Unfortunately the mtf/ftm language is so commonplace elsewhere that this will most likely just confuse new users. Besides, replacing language because it’s somewhat flawed is really hard to do in a way that will catch on at a large scale
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Anonymous12w
Honestly unless I’m having specific medical discussions, all that matters is that I’m non-binary. What I was labeled as a baby is completely irrelevant. So for me, asab talk is usually pointless (not always, I understand that it occasionally has its place)
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Anonymous12w
I avoid mentioning sex at all. Unless you are my doctor or my booty call, you don’t need to know what’s in my pants OR “which way” I am. I am Man, plain and simple.
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Anonymous12w
how do i vote for all three at once
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Anonymous12w
this is too woke for me
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Anonymous#112w
same thing for mtnb/ftnb vs trans masc NB/trans fem NB. I’d rather just say the longer version
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Anonymous#112w
Tbh I agree, and now that I’m 9 months into being on HRT and I can take my womanhood for granted my sex really hasn’t been part of the discussion for a while now so I have no stake in asab language anymore. Acronyms feel more for twitter than real life talking
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Anonymousgipsum12w
yeah I just say I’m non-binary and binary trans people probs just say they’re a (trans) guy or girl. the attempt for a better acronym makes sense but I personally don’t see the need for one at all
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Anonymous#112w
Agreed. Though I do think I’m going to start replacing it in the very rare occasions I would otherwise use mtf or ftm… which is like never. But still
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Anonymous#212w
but also i think the poll is missing an option for the people who think the currently common mtf/ftm acronyms are fine. not sure who those people are but they definitely exist
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Anonymous#312w
clearly i read too much fanfic but idk it felt like it was worth mentioning
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Anonymous#312w
I read it like that too, were both fanfic corrupted lol
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Anonymous#712w
I guess even making a partial change would be pretty fetch 💅✨