
That’s what I hate. As a feminine person who’s AMAB I absolutely can’t stand when an average Joe wears feminine clothes or lingerie as a fetish. Those fukers are the reason why ppl don’t take trans ppl serious because they’re putting us trans ppl and men who have a fetish for femininity in the same category. It’s annoying asf, why can’t you wear boxers or some masc shit when fuking, why do they feel the need to dress fem only when they’re having sex. That’s such a turn off.
Exactly! I couldn’t think of the right terminology to describe those MEN, but you reminded me. It’s the AGP men who give transwomen a bad rep because cis society cannot differentiate the two. But it’s so easy to differentiate the two. A MAN with agp does not ever transition nor dress fem outside of sex. A transwoman is just fem overall and that’s just her identity. It’s the reason why I tell men that I’m not into men who wear thongs, panties, etc. as a fetish. If we’re gonna hu then I need u to
No. When you critique entire groups of people, structural causes and power structures are important. Do I personally find kin with these people? No. Do I find it harmful and degrading towards women? Yes. But you still have to keep in mind that it is male powers who define what that means in the first place… purity culture serves
Twinks exist. Of course CD culture has misogynistic swaths. But it isn’t fair for us to police others gender expressions… reactionarys hate us regardless, for deeper rooted issues, they merely come up with the surface level reasoning after the fact. We could rid the world of CDs and there would still be rampant transphobia, the goal posts would change. Instead of tear down, challenge that the trans community lift up… call out oppression and misogyny when seen, but also forgive and empathize
Yes, but truly what severe infraction have they incurred other than trigger a disgust response? Of course there are those who use these beliefs to both degrade us and women as a whole… on condemning that I will push back naught, but AGP men as a whole? If a man gets off to seeing himself as a woman… who am I to judge? Is our experience of dysphoria for the yearn of womanhood automatically holier than thou? And remember… AGP is a term from a scientist in disgrace, now shunned from academia