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I think I have a crush on this guy (also trans). I’m super excited (because I think he likes me back) but I’m also nervous. He’s from a blue state, but we both go to college in a red state. My parents are super conservative and I’m not out yet to my fam.
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Anonymous 4w

Any tips? It’s be my first t4t relationship and mlm relationship.

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Anonymous 4w

I love finding an interest you both share and then, “A (new horror movie) came out I was thinking about seeing it this weekend. Would you wanna come?” Shared interest is cool like play, band, hike. But the key thing is saying I’m planning to go this weekend. Bc then he can just say I’m really sorry but I’m busy next weekend (which may or may not be why he’s saying no) it’s just less pressure but if he says yes it’s more clearly a date. I do not really like giving or receiving confessions

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Anonymous 4w

tip: If/when you confess, do NOT do what I did and simply ask if he likes you without saying that you like him too, I just about gave my ex a panic attack by doing that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

order tip: if you don't want to hide the relationship but haven't come out you can tell your parents that you're dating a man and they'll accept it as a straight relationship. if they want to meet him, have him call you a pet name (babe, darling, sweetie, etc.) so he doesn't have to deadname you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

other* not order

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

bc either way it’s like ‘what now?’

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