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Does anyone else have issues with their parents but they ARENT really transphobic? Like if I came out to my mom she’d probs be supportive but also I don’t wanna cause the bitch is emotionally manipulative as fuck and has zero respect for my boundaries.
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Anonymous 4w

I’m out to my parents and they’re not transphobic which is great! Unfortunately my mom did try to kill me once and does repeatedly remind me how much she hates me/wants me dead/wants to off herself bc of me/can’t wait until I’m back at college/etc. families can definitely still suck without being transphobic. hang in there friend <33

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Anonymous 4w

Like it feels like stolen valor in some ways lmao but I really do not like that woman and she makes me feel awful when I’m around her. Enmeshed family systems suck you guys👍

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Anonymous 4w

My mom would prob be the accepting one, my dad on the other hand….he grew up in heavy religious household, sure he has come a long way in other things but he doesn’t understand trans and doesn’t try to understand it and has openly stated “he doesn’t believe in dysphoria” too my youngest sibling who had already came out to them once before

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

my mom is also like this, I mean she is transphobic but like that is honestly like the LEAST of her issues

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Yea even non transphobia family issues can really fucking suck🥲 I love being blamed and vilified for when I eventually react to the constant ignoring of my boundaries! It totally is great for my self worth! I love being blamed for all the problems in our relationship even though she refuses to take accountability at all or reflect in the slightest! I love how I have to hide things about myself because if I tell her anything she will use that information later to make me uncomfortable!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I’m having such a great night you guys😀

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

JESUS yea that does sound awful😭 And thank you <3 I’m going back to school soon thankfully.

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