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how do i look more like a boy i'm 5'6 (and 1/2), blonde, and i struggle to make myself workout. my arms are sticks but my tummy is pudgy. my hair color is such a weird thing to be dysphoric about but i feel like i rarely see any blonde cis men.
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Anonymous 3w

side note but the only blonde guy I know dyes his hair brown 😭 like what happened to them

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Anonymous 3w

What helped me pass better before i started T, was that i watched and took mental notes of how men carry themselves casually, like while standing, walking, talking, etc. i didn't think i passed very well because Im 5'5", had a high pitched/ soft voice and am fat (hard to hide curves), but normal people genuinely don't really seem to notice those things/ clock you if your body language and demeanor lean more masc. also if it helps at all i know multiple naturally blond cis men

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Anonymous 3w

i got that #adhd and #executivedysfunction it's so hard to make myself workout. i'm not even lazy, i WANT to workout. i just simply Don't

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