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My mom tells my im not taking “full advantage” of everything to look like a guy, but the thing is: I don’t want to change *myself*, I just want to be me — but a guy. Is that so hard to understand
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Anonymous 5d

EXACTLY. this older guy who i’m close to (he’s kinda like a chosen uncle) was trying to be supportive but was just telling me basically ways to change myself to look more like a guy. he was like take out the piercings, go back to your natural color hair, short haircut, dress like this, etc. and i was like ok im not doing that but thank you? like i get that you’re trying to help but that’s not what i need

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

For me I don’t dye my hair or have piercings either but I get where ur coming from. Like we don’t wanna change what makes us *us*, we just wanna be the male version of who we already are as people

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