
Make sure your partner is comfortable with this first but maybe introduce them first without saying you’re together or that they’re trans? If they form a connection first they may be more accepting if they find out you’re queer afterwards, sort of like breaking the stereotype in their head if that makes sense
have a way out that you can use immediately. a taxi on reserve or a friend or something. keep phone fully charged. make sure they don't have access to your bank accounts and can't take money out esp if one of them set it up you'll probably have to call your bank. if they're going to pull your insurance which is very possible look into what options you have through work/medicaid