OP here, update: the person my mom told doesn’t even understand what trans is and now just thinks I’m a lesbian. No shade to the lesbians, but as a very gay trans guy… [loud incorrect buzzer]
My mom just pulled a family member aside and outed me to her without me knowing until after. Am I crazy to be upset bc I wasn’t considered? My mom says me being trans is a “family affair” but shouldn’t this thing be my call?