Ok, I’m transfem, but I have a question
If I’m into men, but only into trans men due to cis men being hella toxic 99% of the time, would you consider that fetishy? I really don’t want to be insulting, just that cis men in my area suck 😭
that's being t4t, and a lot of trans people are, including myself.
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Anonymous10w
Gay trans guy here, also only into trans men and fictional cis men. Finding acceptable cis men nowadays is abysmal
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Anonymous10w
The rule of thumb is if u would date a cis man who was chill then ure fine
If not maybe a good time to self reflect on something or another
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Anonymous#110w
T4T?
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AnonymousOP10w
Yes, it stands for "Trans for trans" and is just a term for trans people who only get into relationships with other trans people.
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Anonymous#110w
OHHHH THATS ME
Sorry im relatively new to being trans, so i dont know all the terminology yet 😅
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Anonymous#210w
ON GOD
Like, by being transfem, I knew a lot of cis men sucked. But dating is an entirely different hellscape. Cis men need to get their shit together, it’s horrific
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AnonymousOP10w
no, it's ok!! im glad i could help :)
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Anonymous#110w
For the most part I’ve gotten all the terminology down after the past few months, but my memory is shit so sometimes I get confused lmaoooo