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Whenever I come out to a family member or tell someone I’m trans they always ask if I have a want or if I’m planning to the surgery’s for a Weiner is that normal? At first I thought it was just my friends then I realized it’s everyone I talk to about it
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Anonymous 4w

is it a normal experience to have people ask this when you come out? yes Is it normal to ask someone about what they want to do with their genitals? no not really, people just feel entitled to know about trans people's bodies like we're public science experiments

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Anonymous 4w

It’s not normal to ask about someone’s genitals, even if they’re family. I’d start asking about theirs, since they’re so comfortable violating boundaries

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Anonymous 4w

It’s common, but not normal.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I figured it wasn’t normal but my family will ask in a way to see if that’s what I plan on doing my friend will ask to see it bc they are weird strangers will ask to be weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

As in asking people about “hey what do you want your penis to look like” “tell me about your genitals” is REALLY WEIRD and people shouldn’t do it, but it’s been normalized

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

I’ve had both questions and I’ve tried avoiding them but most people really want to know

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