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I told my friend I think I’m a trans girl. And he helped me wear make up & do my hair in support. Then he asked me to please to go down on him, so I did. It was my first time ever doing something like that. Why do I feel so freaked out over it? 😓
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Anonymous 1w

Cause it sounds like he helped affirm you for the purpose of getting sexual favors

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Helped affirm? Wait what do you mean?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

helped affirm your gender like helping you with your hair and makeup but then afterwards makes it so you’re sexually benefitting him, making the interaction transactional instead of sweet and affirming

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Oh I never thought of it that way 😓

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

you deserve to be validated without it turning into a “i scratch your back and you scratch mine” scenario. you should feel appreciated without being sexualized afterwards

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Thank you for that, I’d love to talk more about this if you’d wanna dm me. I just have questions now 😓

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