
I’m trans and all I’ve done is cut my hair and wear trans tape. If I wanted to go back to being a girl (which I don’t) it would be such a non event. Maybe I’d have to wait like 6 months for my hair to grow back but that’s it. And ppl have the audacity to tell me I’ve ruined my body 💀
as someone who’s sorta detransitioned (or more so has changed paths in what their transition looks like), i hate the detransitioners who use their experience as the blueprint for transitions. like “hey b*tch! there’s a million others out there who’ve transitioned to save their lives! just cause you happened to be wrong about transitioning doesnt mean theyre wrong for it to! your lived experience is NOT other’s lived experiences!!” it’s such bs on their ends
Great advice that saved me from going crazy over those same feelings There will always be someone who is ahead of you in their transition. Always, that’s just a fact of the matter besides the oldest living trans person. However, there will also always be someone behind you in transition or who maybe doesn’t even know they’re trans yet. This is the case regardless of age too. Guaranteed there is a tguy in his fifties who just yesterday realized he was trans
im in this exact situation rn- waiting till graduation cause that’s exactly what my parents have been holding over my head: i transition, they dont pay for my college. but im gettin on that shit eventually and trust, you’ll get there too! it’s real hard, ik, but op said it well and ik it can be hard to remember, but there is no one right way to transition.