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I fucking hate how every other detransitioner grifter will be like “I transitioned for years and it irreversibly ruined my life” except they got a mildly shorter haircut and wore a binder for a few months
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Anonymous 6d

Not that cutting your hair and wearing a binder makes you less trans or anything, but like that shit is so reversible 90% of the time

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Anonymous 6d

I’m trans and all I’ve done is cut my hair and wear trans tape. If I wanted to go back to being a girl (which I don’t) it would be such a non event. Maybe I’d have to wait like 6 months for my hair to grow back but that’s it. And ppl have the audacity to tell me I’ve ruined my body 💀

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Anonymous 6d

maia be like…

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Anonymous 6d

as someone who’s sorta detransitioned (or more so has changed paths in what their transition looks like), i hate the detransitioners who use their experience as the blueprint for transitions. like “hey b*tch! there’s a million others out there who’ve transitioned to save their lives! just cause you happened to be wrong about transitioning doesnt mean theyre wrong for it to! your lived experience is NOT other’s lived experiences!!” it’s such bs on their ends

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Anonymous 3d

It's giving Maia Poet vibes. People like her are like "Transition ruined my life!!!!" but they just got a haircut, binder, and clothes, which are reversible.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

i mean. 100% tbh.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

Honestly yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

Uh, yeah, that’s permanent. The hair you cut off is forever changed and can’t be undone. Didn’t you know that? 🙄 (Very heavy sarcasm!)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

Yeah like there’s nothing to be ashamed of if you’re early into your transition, everyone’s been there, but to act like you’ve been “mutilated” and permanently scarred is hilarious

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

yeah I’m currently held back by financial limitations and my parents who don’t want me to medically transition who I still live with unfortunately. It sucks seeng t guys my age already passing but it is what it is

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

Great advice that saved me from going crazy over those same feelings There will always be someone who is ahead of you in their transition. Always, that’s just a fact of the matter besides the oldest living trans person. However, there will also always be someone behind you in transition or who maybe doesn’t even know they’re trans yet. This is the case regardless of age too. Guaranteed there is a tguy in his fifties who just yesterday realized he was trans

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

im in this exact situation rn- waiting till graduation cause that’s exactly what my parents have been holding over my head: i transition, they dont pay for my college. but im gettin on that shit eventually and trust, you’ll get there too! it’s real hard, ik, but op said it well and ik it can be hard to remember, but there is no one right way to transition.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6d

Exactly that! There are as many ways to transition as there are people who transition. Also why “how far are you in transition?” type questions are irksome. Everyone’s needs and goals are different. 😪

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6d

yess we’ll get there one day!! Rn I’m just doing my best to do well in school and save as much as possible so when I graduate I can finally transition

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