
pretty much this or be super social and bubbly to a really exhausting degree. you kind of have to be the person who says “can i join your group” or whatever. also trying to schedule classes with people i’m already friends with has helped. then we can start a group and i think that makes it less scary for the cis mob to look at you like a person. cause one of them already does and is chatting with you. idk just my experience ig