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has anyone found a good way to explain to your sibling that if you die you want them to fight for your preferred name to be on your tombstone instead of your dead name? i tried and my sister called a safety check on me because she thought i was planning
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Anonymous 1d

maybe frame it as being paranoid for your safety? because of all the transphobic hate crimes in the news lately

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

given the state we live in that’s something that is terrifyingly believable and honestly one of my main concerns. i wasn’t sure how to word it but just “concerned for my safety in a transphobic red state” should be enough. thank you 💕

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