It really feels like most people are penissexual, even if they claim otherwise. It’s really disheartening as a trans man. And yes I do want bottom surgery but it’s still very expensive and I’d rather just have been born with the right genitals
coming from an nb tfem, I’ve seen this more often than I’d have expected 😭 I’ve had at least three people who said/clearly implied they wouldn’t be into me if I had different parts. it’s insane
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Anonymous#114h
this is generally why I stick with bi/pan people since ime they’re less prone to be like… that. I’m t4t and still go by that rule unless they’re really chill
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Anonymous#113h
Even within some t4t circles I see a lot of this dick obsession. It’s baffling to me since I’m not particularly fond of penises anyway, it’s just a body part? I wonder where it comes from
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AnonymousOP12h
my last person was an it/she biro grayace lesbian who, later on in our relationship, told me it wouldn’t be into me if I didn’t have a dick… I didn’t want to have sex with her, but this still mattered 😭 idk I don’t get it
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Anonymous#112h
That’s really weird 😭😭😭 it doesn’t make any sense either