Trans Talk on Yik Yak | Sometimes I’m bothered by people complaining about r/transpassing telling them they don’t pass. Like… you posted asking for an honest take on whether you pass. You got told no. That’s not transphobic even if it’s hurtful?

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Trans Talk 17w

Sometimes I’m bothered by people complaining about r/transpassing telling them they don’t pass. Like… you posted asking for an honest take on whether you pass. You got told no. That’s not transphobic even if it’s hurtful?

Anonymous 17w

Sometimes people ask if they pass because encouragement would mean the world to them, sometimes people want actionable style critique, and sometimes they really want an honest opinion to predict their safety in a given situation… I think there are places and times for all of those, and people should ideally be honest with themselves about which they’re looking for at the time

Anonymous 17w

Average transpassing advice is no dyed hair or earrings 😭

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Anonymous 17w

I get gendered 100% correctly every single day but transpassing told me I don’t pass AT ALL because I have long hair and rectangular glasses lmao sometimes they just genuinely have shit takes

Anonymous

schadenfreude 17w

It’s mostly insecure individuals that feel the need to put others down in order to feel better about themselves and/or situations. Toxic cesspool

Anonymous

#2 16w

Exactly. Reddit is just a bad place to ask for advice or to be emotionally vulnerable in general. Let alone for something like this. The people there are just plain mean. I avoid trans Reddit like the plague ngl.