Recently told myself that I might be nb instead of a transgirl and then I had a whole dream last night where I was a princess and wearing all these cute clothes and when I woke up I was so upset so I don't know anymore
you can be a cute & feminine nonbinary princess if that’s what suits you! or like, “nonbinary with a side of girl” / vice-versa. imo gender should be customized to our heart’s content
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Anonymous1w
I stopped caring about identity I am what I am, other ppl attach labels too what they interpret me as and I just let em. I know what I am, but I don’t bother to attatch a true label to it.
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Anonymous1w
When categories that are designed to help end up causing confusion and distress, it's better to instead think about what you want out of transitioning, independent of labels. Do you want boobs? Do you want less body hair? Softer skin?
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Anonymous#31w
None of those desires implicate a label (you can be nb w/ boobs, you can be a girl w/o boobs, etc) and it's more practical in the long run. Eventually you can settle on a label if you want, but it's absolutely not mandatory
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Anonymous#31w
For now you at least know that you're not cis, and that's all that matters. Good luck op 🫂💖