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I (mtf) am struggling so much with gender envy. Does anyone have any tips on how to deal with this?
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Anonymous 7h

as a trans dude who got gender envy crazyyyy bad when i first started transitioning you lowkey just have take gender envy more like ideas for things you want to see in yourself one day and eventually it works out. it takes a while to get there but you really do just have to focus on self improvement, as much as that kinda sounds like bullshit advice. eventually you’ll reach a point where you’re happy with yourself. i don’t think the envy ever fully goes, but it gets easier to handle for sure

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7h

obviously that may not work for everyone but to me looking at people that give me gender envy and pointing out what exactly it is that i envy and applying it to sort of a list in my head of things i want for myself works pretty well because it turns the envy into what feels more like a goal that i can achieve some day

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