
as a trans dude who got gender envy crazyyyy bad when i first started transitioning you lowkey just have take gender envy more like ideas for things you want to see in yourself one day and eventually it works out. it takes a while to get there but you really do just have to focus on self improvement, as much as that kinda sounds like bullshit advice. eventually you’ll reach a point where you’re happy with yourself. i don’t think the envy ever fully goes, but it gets easier to handle for sure
obviously that may not work for everyone but to me looking at people that give me gender envy and pointing out what exactly it is that i envy and applying it to sort of a list in my head of things i want for myself works pretty well because it turns the envy into what feels more like a goal that i can achieve some day