truly cannot fathom the mindset behind thinking it’s acceptable to refer to a trans person by a label they don’t personally use and which incorporates their ASAB by name. it’s just misgendering with a layer of (tenuously) plausible deniability smoothed over the top

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it doesn’t matter if they present extremely feminine, they are still nonbinary and therefore trans, just as much as you. just because one trans person doesn’t go through the same experience as another doesn’t make them any less trans

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it’s a derogatory term 99% of the time, there’s no way people defend its usage unless they’re an afab nb using it jokingly

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