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Insane fear I just developed: what if I just transitioned (ftm) because I’m fetishizing trans women and pursue t4t as a way of de-fanging my transmisogyny
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Anonymous 23h

Idk if you’ve got OCD but I have a similar fear. I’m ftm and gay and worry about fetishizing gay men/invading their spaces. I eventually realized that my identity within relationships isn’t as core to my being as my transness. Chasers don’t have gender euphoria, and if you’ve transitioned and don’t feel dysphoric (by being a masculine I mean) then you’re not doing it just for t4t. Theres also a lot of transbians who date cis women, so there’s that too. If you need anything my dm’s are open 💛

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Anonymous 21h

Shoutout to the girl who dm’d me looking for a relationship A+ in not reading the room

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Anonymous 16h

My ex gf instilled this in my brain for a straight year its poison

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

if you post a screenshot of it here then the mods will ban her, that’s what they told me to do when it happened to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

She left after saying she “wouldn’t be a side piece.” I said I was in a relationship before that. This post is about my internalized transphobia in relationships.

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