It was the same when I got top surgery; I got no congratulations or celebration to finally experience happiness or freedom for the first time ever. My family knows how terrible my dysphoria’s been since I was a young child, but seeing my suffering being relieved just isn’t riveting, I guess.
I don’t have your exact situation but I know what it’s like to have a major milestone and no one celebrate with you really. I don’t wanna tell my family I’m trans (long story) so when I started hrt it just kinda felt like any old Tuesday and it sucked. I have a hard time getting excited about this kinda stuff on my own too so I couldn’t even rlly celebrate on my own.