
as someone from the southeast (the south) our rules are generally to yes, dress down. i get barked at at bus stops (college town, ymmv) bc people perceive me as a girl, and my friend got the gay slur yelled at him. it's generally a heightened scrutiny environment, although it's more social pressure than direct confrontation, at least where i am. so yeah, i'd probably dress down. emo teen whose parents don't let them wear a lot of makeup is the farthest i'd go in expression.