Trans Talk on Yik Yak | I am MtF and feel as if I do not deserve to be a woman due to me being conservative growing up and probably not being the best person. Does anyone else experience this?

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I am MtF and feel as if I do not deserve to be a woman due to me being conservative growing up and probably not being the best person. Does anyone else experience this?

Anonymous 5w

so what I’m hearing is that you experienced growth? you’re always allowed to be a better person today than you were yesterday, you deserve some grace.

Anonymous 5w

I’s recommend looking at if there are any YouTube videos about this? Maybe something to do with guilt, shame, or internalized transphobia?

Anonymous

#1 5w

I think a lot of it has to do with my OCD. My intrusive thoughts are more about not being “good enough” rather than like cleaning and such. I did grow up in a very conservative Christian community so I know I shouldn’t heavily blame myself as I’m healing but the guilt is definitely still there.

Anonymous

OP 5w

🫂 maybe therapy, if it’s an option?

Anonymous

#1 5w

I’m actually actively looking for a gender affirming counselor. I just was asking on here because I was curious of others experiences.

Anonymous

OP 5w

Yay

Anonymous

#1 5w

I can’t say I’ve had that experience with gender, but certainly with sexuality