
i agree with what as others have said and i also suggest finding a truly queer friendly barber/salon that will cut your hair masculine short and won’t just cut your hair short but in a feminine way, though you can definitely work with a lot of those cuts to make it more masculine with styling! i’m not sure what cut you got, but i promise you, we all go through it one way or another when get our first chop <3
Personally, I believe that colors/lanth of shirts matter when it comes to fashion, if a shirt is too big, put the leftover fabric into the sides of your pants, and if you don't wear a binder yet, then I can definitely give you some good companies or methods that are supposed to help, I also have some websites that help you find what's good color combinations for your skin town and such.