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I hate having sex as a trans person. Especially one attracted to cis people lowkey feel like a lot of them fetishize me or project their image of what I should be onto me. Kind of sours the whole thing and that’s not mentioning the body horror of nudity
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Anonymous 22h

Everyone has body horror of nudity. Seems to vanish somewhat once you’re in the mood. Start in a dark room perhaps.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

Yes I know that. The problem is that it persists even in the “mood” which really discourages doing the deed in the first place.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

Yeah. I get it. My only advice really would be to find someone and get to know them before getting naked. Or definitely a really dark room at first 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

Or be wearing sexy stuff to add to the excitement of gradually getting naked.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11h

body horror of nudity? like not liking yourself nude? I don’t have that at all, I love being nude/being seen nude

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

I’m glad you aren’t me bestie 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11h

Ig maybe I just don’t like sex period it’s whatever ultimately

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

oh I still have awful dysphoria, but it’s worse with clothes 💀 I swear, no matter what I wear, it accentuates me least favorite features

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

Fair enough we must all struggle with our own struggles

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