trans guys 🤝 trans women why does the mens bathroom have cis men in it

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But like literally one of my cis guy friends checked with me to see if I was comfortable going into the guys bathroom and he assured me everything is ok.

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literally so real

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I always try to use the gender neutral bathrooms at my school but there’s only one per building and the cis ppl always use it at the private pooping room 😭

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i always feel so pressured too cause there’s one stall so if i gotta shit i just go to the women’s. on t post op but idc

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Like excuse me this is the little boys room- u need to go to the fire hydrant

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biggest mood, my bathroom anxiety has even taken over my dreams, i had a dream a guy clocked me and then pooped on my head like what the actual fuck

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I can’t wait to finally be able to use the men’s bathroom I am scared tho😭😭

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I genuinely assess the area I’m in and decide which gendered bathroom will b safer

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I’m scared to use the women’s restroom when I officially transition, but I look at it almost every day and sigh.

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for real dude

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LOLLL

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my friend experiences this all the time and my heart breaks for him. i’m so sorry y’all have go through this :( y’all can use my bathroom free of judgement anytime

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Men’s gas station bathrooms are a SCARY place. Not a single spot on the wall that doesn’t have either swear words/slurs/hate speech on them. But maybe that’s just a southern thing

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I know right?!

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Me in the bathroom rn

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I’m always afraid of this bc amab agender I don’t wanna seem intimidating

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Yess and in my school, the men’s bathroom has only 1 closed toilet. So everytime I have to pee and walk in there, and see someone else is in there, I have to walk back out and that’s so awkward😂

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this is so real. id love a trans bathroom but without the implications and precedent set by the trans bathroom 😭

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This

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I’m super lucky I’ve never had issues in the men’s bathroom LOL men just do not give enough of a fuck to say anything to me

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especially when someone’s in the stall and u stand there awkwardly cause you feel like someone’s gonna clock you 😭

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I’m a cisgendered man that’s lurking so I can be a better ally. I had no idea how scary this was. I will make sure to use multiple stall bathrooms from now on.

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I think I let out a verbal scoff the last time I walked in 😤 so much audacity.

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